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Controlling Destructive Habits

It is so very easy to fall into a cycle of personally destructive behavior during and after a divorce. This can happen for a variety of reasons.

Depression - You become lethargic. You forget to eat, take prescribed medications or no longer feel like exercising. You can become lazy and allow your personal grooming, hygiene and appearance to fall apart. You are sad, lonely or depressed so you start drinking more.

Vengeance - You feel like you want to get even with your ex, so you go crazy spending money, drinking heavily, doing drugs and hanging out with unhealthy people. You are mad so you want to date and have sex with anything that moves.

Bad influences - Some people will tell you that you should go do every wild thing you ever wanted to. They recommend partying heavily, carousing and dating as many women as you can. The perceived image of the “wild divorced guy” makes you think that you should do all these things.

Some of these things may seem fun at first, but eventually destructive behaviors will catch up with you. You are hurting no one but yourself when you participate in dangerous lifestyle activities. You will end up further in debt, be less respected by friends and family. You might start performing poorly at work and lose your job. It is also very easy to become addicted to drugs or alcohol. Catching a STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease) is a real possibility. Once all the wild partying is over, these destructive habits will stick with you. Then you are faced with trying to rid your life of them (STD’s, alcoholism, drug addiction).

Alcohol is dangerous. It can become your new best friend after a divorce. You are sad and lonely - alcohol covers up the boredom. Alcohol is readily available, legal and is socially accepted. I am not against alcohol or social drinking. I am simply stating that it can become a “crutch” and before you know it, you are addicted and alcohol related problems become an issue in your new life. If you have a problem with alcohol or want to control your drinking, I suggest you visit my website www.LivingSoberSucks.com

There is nothing wrong with wanting to go out and have fun, meet new people and meet new women. You should do those things, but be fully conscious of what you are getting into. Don’t participate in activities that you know are truly bad for you - you will only hurt yourself.

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